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Dealing With Travel-Wary Indian Parents.

Of the dozen emails I receive each week from fellow travel enthusiastsΒ aspiring to build a life around travel, a pertinent question seems toΒ revolve around convincing parents to accept traveling as a hobby, as aΒ way of experiencing the world, and gradually as a way of life.Β Particularly in our Indian upbringing, travel is often looked upon asΒ just a holiday to visit relatives or places of worship, making it aΒ notch harder to change perspectives, and the challenge even moreΒ thrilling. Hailing from a small mountain town, I’ve fought many a battle toΒ convince the ‘adults’ in my family to let me go travelling, solo orΒ otherwise, and sometimes to have them give up on me so I could just doΒ as I please. I’ve been quite a rebel from the start, so I must admitΒ that my methods have been ruthlessly aggressive sometimes. Based on myΒ own experiences, Indian parents are most likely to oppose a life ofΒ travelling because of concerns for safety, money, career, and “it not being theΒ societal thing to do”, in that order. These are my ways (most tried &Β tested, some …