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Highs and Lows of 2019 – and What I’m Looking Forward to in 2020.

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After spending large chunks of 2017 and 2018 writing and publishing my first book, 2019 was all about rediscovering my travel mojo. And luckily for me, this year gave me many chances to push my boundaries.

Epic cross-border land journeys, under-the-radar top-of-the-wishlist destinations, taking on sustainable living challenges, getting featured by one of the world’s leading publications and launching a travel-inspired sustainable clothing collection… 2019 was all sorts of awesome and unexpected. 

Like any year though, it had its lows too. I stumbled into vystopia (vegan dystopia; I’ll explain later in this post) and felt like life went a bit out of focus. 

HIGHS 

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Exploring countries I’ve dreamt about for a long time

Just like plans and visas kept falling apart in 2018, they somehow kept coming together in 2019. I ended up with some epic adventures, of which a small sample is below:

  • A solo land journey from Thailand to Northeast India via Myanmar – kayaking, canoeing, motorbiking and almost finding a lost family member along the way!
  • A motorbike adventure to discover unmapped villages in the tribal Chin State of Myanmar.
  • Overlanding (with my partner) from the Persian Gulf via the south of Iran to Armenia, reaching Yerevan after a 36 hour bus ride complete with Bollywood-loving border guards who ransacked our luggage.
  • Delving deeper into the Caucasus as a digital nomad in Armenia.
  • Turning an invitation to speak at the Mountain Echoes Literary Festival in Bhutan into a slow travel adventure through the country, hoping to understand the secret to happiness.
  • Venturing into Central Asia for the first time, on assignment for USAID, to explore parts of Uzbekistan and Tajikistan.
  • A three-day walking safari in Gondwana Game Reserve in South Africa, that brought me face-to-face with giraffes and zebras!

It was hard to break my end-of-the-year Thailand ritual, but I’m typing this from South Africa with zero regrets. This life does feel surreal sometimes!

Getting featured in the Washington Post

While in Uzbekistan, I woke up to news that I’d been featured in the prestigious Washington Post among “Globe-trotting Instagram influencers changing the way we think about the world”. SUCH AN HONOR. 

Slow land journeys 

It hasn’t been easy cutting flying out of my travelling and blogging life (in an attempt to further lower my carbon footprint) but I swear I’m trying. Infact after overlanding from Thailand to India, I’m hooked to the idea of more such adventures.

I tried to put together some crazy plans to travel over land from India to Uzbekistan, but when I heard that one could travel through Tibet only with a private car and driver which would cost thousands of dollars, I had to drop the idea. The India-Bhutan and Uzbekistan-Tajikistan land border crossings were relatively less adventurous but I love (and hate) the feeling of walking across imaginary lines nonetheless. 

Fourth reprint of my book, The Shooting Star

The cover now officially says “National Bestseller”! 

It’s been over a year since my book was published, and I imagined it’d be done and dusted by now. But I’m lucky enough to still wake up to messages on how the book found you at a certain time in life, affected you, changed your perspective, gave you the courage to take a bold step… and that means the world to me <3

Embracing sustainable menstruation

I never thought I’d be that girl raving about the menstrual cup – but here I am. After fighting through all the fear and apprehension and finding courage in friends who’ve been using it for a while, I finally figured out how to use it. No more pads, no more waste. I can’t recommend this little miracle cup enough!

Winning Runners-up for “best writing in a blog” at TBC Asia Awards

It breaks my heart when people tell me they hate reading… and ask me to create videos instead. Of all the labels I carry, “writer” is the one I most identify with. 

So it was both thrilling and humbling to be recognised for my writing on this blog at the TBC Asia Awards held annually in Sri Lanka (and to have a member of the The Shooting Star team collect it on my behalf). 

The Shooting Star Collection  

I never thought I’d start my fashion line of anything (confession: I currently own four t-shirts), but sometimes the universe just nudges you in unexpected directions! In partnership with a young Indian startup Hoomanwear, I recently launched a travel-inspired clothing collection.

It’s designed with dreamers, explorers and rebels in mind, comes in customisable “vibes” (minimal, bold, cool), is environmentally-friendly and ships worldwide in recycled / reusable / biodegradable packaging!

LOWS

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Spiraling into vystopia (vegan dystopia)

At the beginning of 2019, I found myself over-consumed by the depression of living in a non-vegan world. A world where even as I type this, billions of animals are being tortured, abused and killed to satisfy our cravings for meat, seafood, cheese, eggs, leather, silk and other animal products.

When that depression began to overpower my day-to-day life, I hesitatingly began to research and learnt that many vegans and animal lovers have also lived through this. Australian psychologist Claire Mann has even coined a term for it: “vystopia” – the anguish of being vegan in a non-vegan world.

Just when I was on the verge of scheduling a consultation session with her, a vegan friend in Iran convinced me to use my influence to create more awareness about veganism. I decided to return to freelance writing and ended up writing stories for National Geographic Traveller, First Post and Travel & Leisure, and using social media to raise funds for a sanctuary for bruised and battered cows in Goa.

The state of affairs in India

As much as I consider myself a global citizen, it pinches the hardest when I read about recent developments in India. The obvious Islamophobia in the country, even among people close to me, really boils my blood. Many of my readers and family members have advised me to stick to travel blogging, but having witnessed the incredible beauty of this world and its people, how can I stay silent? I keep going back to Nelson Mandela’s words on Apartheid in South Africa in his autobiography, Long Walk to Freedom:

“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”⁣⁣

Life out of focus 

While 2019 was an indulgent year on the professional and travel front, I couldn’t help but feel a void that was once filled by working on my book. I tried to channel this emptiness towards promoting responsible tourism, veganism and sustainability. And initiated a couple of passion projects but each fell through for different reasons. All in all, life just a felt a little more meaningless than usual – and I sure hope to fix that in 2020.

Looking ahead: 2020

mount ararat, armenia digital nomad

The travel blogging community unexpectedly lost some beautiful souls in 2019 – and thinking about them always reminds me to be grateful for the things we take for granted. Good health, the privilege to travel and relationships that sail us through thick and thin.

In 2020, I aim to spend larger chunks of time digital nomading wherever I go. The three months I’m spending now in South Africa feel like the new sweet spot. I also have a couple of new passion projects up my sleeve, and hope to finally work towards my dream of contributing towards reforestation in India.

Contribute to my fundraiser to grow forests in Uttarakhand

In September this year, I travelled to Uttarakhand to learn about the work of Alaap – an innovative non-profit growing mixed native forests (not just planting trees) using the revolutionary Miyawaki Method. These forests have a high carbon sequestration potential and create seasonal employment for 15-17 locals. I’ve started a fundraiser to support Alaap to grow two forests in Uttarakhand in February 2020 – and would love to have your support. Whatever you are able to contribute will go a long way!

Reader Survey 2019

Every year, I ask for your valuable feedback to work out what you love / hate about this blog and the kind of content you want to see here. I’d love for you to spare a few minutes to answer my 2019 Reader Survey. As a thank you, I’ll be sending out a signed copy of my book to two randomly picked participants (remember to enter the giveaway after you finish the survey)!

[Update Feb 2020] Thanks for participating and sharing your thoughtful feedback! The two lucky winners are Komudi Jaiswal and Divya. Please check your email 🙂

Love creating videos? Join The Shooting Star team

I feel like I’m finally ready to create travel-inspired videos on topics close to my heart – and am looking for someone to join my team part-time to get this going. If you love to brainstorm, curate, shoot and edit videos, check out details of this position and apply.

Digital marketing consultation for vegan entrepreneurs

From Dec 2019 to March 2020, I’m offering “pay what you like” consultation again for entrepreneurs who run entirely vegan businesses. See more details.

A huge thank you for reading my blog and book, and supporting my work through the years. I hope 2020 is filled with the courage to dream, a thirst for adventure, compassion for all living beings and an ever-growing love for the wonders of our planet. See you on the other side!

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24 Comments

  1. I guess both highs and lows have their own part to play in journey. Hope in 2020 you achieve a lot more success and happiness, Shivya. Continue inspiring….

  2. I (somehow) only recently discovered your blog, and I’ve been loving following you! So many of the trips you mentioned are ones that have been on our bucket list for ages. 🙂 Best of luck with your plans in 2020!

    • Shivya Nath says

      Glad to be connect Jen! And hope you make it to some of those places in 2020; they’re totally worth the wait 🙂

  3. High and low are the integral part of our life. Without low in success there is nothing means of high. 😛.This 2020 year will be surely fill of a lot of highs and lows.

    • Shivya Nath says

      I agree; the lows keep you grounded while the highs keep you going. All the best for your 2020 too!

  4. Dhwani says

    Your highs and lows made me introspect on my 2019. And I found most part of 2019 was unfocused and aimless. I just got drifted with compulsions.
    2020 can not be lived the same way! I have to set some goals!
    Thank you for your sharing.

    • Shivya Nath says

      That’s amazing Dhwani! It always helps to introspect and reset our focus, and the new year is a great excuse to do that 🙂

  5. Supraja S says

    You know I’ve been leading a cruelty free lifestyle for almost 22yrs. No silk, no leather, no cosmetics tested / containing animal ingredients, no ice creams (gelatin), no cakes/pastries(eggs) etc and this was at a time when I didn’t know the term vegan or the cruelty of the dairy industry.
    I’ve never felt the need to sway from this for such a long time but this year there have been thoughts on exactly the kind of stuff you’re talking about. But my work keeps me hopeful as a WFPB nutritionist, getting people to wean off animal products 1 at a time and it gives me the strength to carry on. You are doing great and as an influencer you have a lot of impact.
    Keep at it! More power to you!
    Happy New Year! Stay blessed!

    • Shivya Nath says

      Wow Supraja, I have nothing but admiration for you. To do it at a time when awareness was so low (not that it’s that high now) and any alternatives were unheard of (not that we need them though they do make transition easier). Sure hope our paths cross someday!

  6. I am glad that you love to write! I realize the central role visual media plays in our lives today. But that’s why I love even more someone who can write in moving way. Keep it up, I say!

    • Shivya Nath says

      Thank you Janice; that means the world! I keep telling myself that even if much fewer read, I love writing anyway so will keep at it 🙂

  7. Wonderful retrospective of your year. I am envious of your epic adventures.
    I’m grateful for the time I spent traveling in Sri Lanka (a high) but very sad about the horrific terrorist attacks there on Easter Sunday. I also loved slow travel, by bike, along France’s Normandy and Brittany coasts. I’m hoping my travels will finally bring me to your home country in 2020.
    All the best in the new year and I look forward to reading more about your exciting travel adventures.

    • Shivya Nath says

      That sounds like quite an epic travel year for you! Very sad about all the horrific things happening around the world indeed; hope 2020 will be a year of relative peace.

  8. Always good to read your year end posts. I also associate you as a write than a video blogger. So Shivya, do what you like. There will always be newer things that will come and go.
    Have a lovely 2020. Keep writing 🙂

    • Shivya Nath says

      Thanks Parul; going to try to seriously do more videos this year but without compensating on the writing!

  9. Even with lows there are lot of positives and we should go for positives any day. In these times travelers have even greater responsibility of not just travel but spread the positives of one’s country. Thanks for inspiring.

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